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It is wasted words to try to express a rule when a child is upset, as they focus on one thing at a time.
Instead, train yourself to say, “You realized that you jumped off the chair and got hurt when you landed on the ground”, rather than, “See, that is what happens when you jump off the chair”.
We often try to teach lesson to kids about life at the most inappropriate times.
If a child gets hurt because they were doing something dangerous or inappropriate, they already learned their lesson.
When I think about all of the phrases, anecdotes, and sayings about the power of the spoken word I am reminded of how I changed my way of communicating with children upon learning Play Therapy principles.
A kid can sit down on a chair facing the back, and we make them turn around.
This clearly communicates the expectation and the consequence, without a threat.
Parents tend to want control all of the time, and it takes work to allow kids to have freedom to do what they choose.
“If you choose to (continue that behavior), you choose to (receive whatever consequence has already been established as a punishment)”.
You might say, “Erin, if you choose to poke your sister again, you choose to not watch TV for the rest of the day”.
You can always rephrase the sentence from a negative to a positive, which will correct the behavior without sounding critical.